During ‘Red Table Talk’ Discussion Pastor John Gray Says ‘prayer is not enough’ To Solve Marriage Problems😒😒

Pastor John Gray and his wife Aventer Gray were guests on Jada Pinkett Smith’s Red Table Talk, co-hosted by her daughter Willow and her mother Adrienne Banfield Norris. During Wednesday’s episode of the Emmy-nominated Facebook series, Pastor Gray, 46, admitted that the Coronavirus pandemic and quarantine have heightened tensions in his marriage, and more than prayer is needed to resolve marital issues.

 “The reason why this conversation is so impacting to me is that, as a man of faith, what sometimes happens with the theological construct is that we think that our Higher Power will somehow fix it all, and sometimes prayer is not enough,” he said as he sat next to Mrs. Gray, 38.

You can read the rest here: Article By Candice Nixon // EEW Magazine // Marriage and Family


  1. While I’m not going to listen to this whole thing because I know that John Gray is full of crap. I can absolutely agree that it does to more than just prayer to fix a marriage. I’ve tried that before and it didn’t work lol.

  2. I just want to preface my comment saying I am giving my thoughts to the topic ONLY and I OFTEN ascribe to doing. If someone want to attack me PERSONALLY, be prepared to be in your place. So Ms. Ann before you go to deleting after folks addressing me, and NOT THE TOPIC AT ALL...IJS!

    SO here goes -

    As Christians WE should counsel the WORLD, not the WORLD counsel US. This session only proves the Grays are NONE OF HIS.

    I see now the ALL the lies surrounding COVID, is now making people LIE FOR COVID. And who better to use than a BLACK EMPOWERED WOMAN who has a BLACK “Superstar” husband to develop a platform at their “DEVIL” Red Table.

    Same old rhetoric -

    “Life gets busy and you create these stories about your spouse”.

    “We are learning to be FRIENDS” LOL...

    “I don't know you, and you don't know me”.

    “We gotta learn how to love ourselves”.

    And of course this pitiful preacher “empowering” the she devil destroyer' -

    “She's had a consistent role in this marriage...and O POOR ME, I'm still trying to find out my role”.

    “I should have empathize, when I've ONLY been sympathizing”.

    “The reason why this conversation is so impacting to me is because as a man of faith we sometimes think as a theological construct a higher power will somehow fix it all”.

    And now their EXPERT -

    “When we meet somebody we don't actually know them.”... DAH

    “We gotta make our relationship current”.

    'There is one partner, the other partner and the relationship”.

    “Give the person the praise the things that are good about them and vice versa”.


    It's obvious these people DO NOT HAVE THE ANSWERS!

    The LORD said “ Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.
    But his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.

    The LORD said Wives submit to Your own husbands as unto the LORD. Wives OBEY your husbands.

    He said Husbands love your wives even as Christ loves the church and gave Himself for it. Wash her with the water of the WORD.

    And to children - Children Obey your parents and thy days will be long. Sons hear the instruction of thy father. Fathers do not provoke them to anger.

    There are no reasons or excuses man will EVER GIVE before the LORD for not seeking to understand His ways. Give Him ONE excuse, He'll say DEPART and POOF...you are NOW BURNING IN THE LAKE of FIRE!!!

    Burn Baby Burn


    1. @Anonymous,

      John just played himself with this red table talk mess! Talking of how he is still finding his role in marriage, yet clearly he knew his role with his side piece... ooops! 🤭

  3. Yes after 12yrs of marriage I'm the 1st to say prayer isn't enough but KEY to survival!! Now you have got to me kidding me?! The Grays are on a show to where the hostees don't even believe Jesus, period. She's admitted that she cool with an open marriage and I saw an interview she admitted this and DARED the person interviewing her to say something against it. I couldn't believe it. She totally had an attitude about the subject as if it was great to have someone on the side. And now this red table mess...

    1. @Timezone,

      The Grays appearing on red table talk are in their comfort zone (pun not necessarily intended).

  4. If he had said "prayer without actions is not enough" I would agree. But if prayer is not the answer then why did God command us to do things like "pray without ceasing" or why did he say things like "the fervent effectual prayer of a righteous man availeth much"? I don't know much about Pastor Gray but I know about God. Prayer is the answer but once you've prayed and read the word of God you must apply it to your life. If you can't find God's will for a specific issue, you act in faith because God does honor the unclear but honest intent of a righteous man.

  5. Tired of looking at ALL of these silly creatures!

  6. Miss Ann,

    Gray is not saying anything new. One has to read Matthew 19:3-11 to understand that Christ did NOT speak of prayer to make a marriage work. You have to receive the teaching and UNDERSTAND that marriage is HARD work!

    For Gray & wife to appear on the red table talk is to seal their allegiance with the wicked world! And nothing else. They have always wanted to stay relevant for the 💰💰💰, they won’t let Rona hold them back!

    PS to those like I who have purposed to remain single:

    “For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.” (Matthew 19:12)

    God sees you, keep the faith!

  7. Satan sometimes wonders why Christians here constantly avoid talking about him and yet always have to talk about how he kills people with corona virus and covid19 with his homeboys to damn people to hell who have not called on His name to be savedMonday, 04 May, 2020

    Why is that?


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