How To Turn Your Son Into A Pimp!

Is it true that a lot of single women seem to be raising their sons (often unknowingly) to become pimps?Now when I think of a pimp,I think of a man driving around in a big car with a bunch of streetwalkers that he panders to other lusty men. Is pimpin a learned behavior? Do you have to train a boy to be a pimp in childhood? Now I was reading this article which seems to indicate that Single Black Women/Mothers are mainly the reason that some of our young black men are in the shape and condition they are in.
Check it out:

First , raise him to think he's "cute." I'm not talking about a positive self-image. I'm talking about creating an impression in his mind at the earliest possible moment that his physical appearance is more important than how he treats his fellow man or what he knows or thinks.

Do this by piercing his ears and braiding his hair from day one, making him indistinguishable from a little girl. Of course, you would never think of making your baby daughter look like a boy, but that's OK.

And don't worry, you won't make him gay, but by focusing on his physical appearance and fashion, you will teach him that a woman's role in his life is for them to cater to his every material desire just because he is so "cute" or "fine" - you know, like a pimp.

Let him think that the world revolves around him by virtue of "cuteness". That way, when the steel mill, corporate American or academia start hiring "cute"; instead of "skilled", "strong", or "intelligent", he will finally be able to get a job - whenever that is.

To raise a pimp you must act like a whore. How else will your son know how to handle them? You've got to swear and talk nasty at every available activity. Keep a steady stream of different men coming through your house.

Let your son hear you moan in your bedroom as you consort with the Man of the Week". Let him see how you manipulate men; this one to pay the rent, that one to pay NIPSCO. That way he learns that the only value men have in society is to use and be used by women. It won't make him a good man, but it will make him one helluva pimp.

Emphasize the importance of sexual rather than intellectual prowess. This is a favorite in black communities. For instance, they say black men have "big ones."
If your son is black, make sure he keeps focused on this. That is essential to keeping him on the "pimp track". You see, if he starts valuing "heavy thinking" over being "heavy hung", he might stray from the pimpin' path that some in the black community - and for that matter, in some segments of white society as well have chosen for some young black men.

And you certainly wouldn't want that to happen, now would you?Make your son "your man". I'm not talking about sexually, but emotionally.
Let your young son talk to you like he's grown, even when he is a child. Get him involved in your personal affairs. Keep him away from his father and put his father down to him. He will grow with no respect for his father or himself.

Since he is young and impressionable, your son may be the only "man" in your life you can "control". So don't love him, control him.
Never let him accept responsibility for his actions. Remember, when he gets in trouble at school, it should always be some other child or the teacher's fault, never his. If he starts using drugs, blame his friends, not him. If he gets arrested, bail him out immediately and tell the judge that your son is "a good boy".Remember, sorry excuses make sorry men, and sorry men make excellent pimps.

Look, if you follow my advice, your son will grow up to be a trifling, good-for-nothing, clothes-horsing, baby-making, no job-having pimp perpetually dependent on the women in his life (perhaps you) for his very sustenance. But you've got to decide early if you want a pimp or a man for a son, because you certainly can't have both. Thanks too Dr.Gillis Triplett Pastor,Teacher and Writer.

Comments

  1. THis really good food for thought. I'll be passing this around for weeks!

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  2. I agree 100% that MANY single moms (and I'm 1 too) distort their mother/son relationship. Instead of preparing them to be the man they're to be in the world and how to treat women in general, women put their sons in the role of 'their man' maybe subconciously but as a male child gets older they begin to assert themselves (my 17 y/o child has), naturally. It's up to us as women to remind the CHILD he is a child and while we do care about their thought IN NO WAY should they be the decision maker in the house. My son told me I should wait until he moves out and date-NOT! I know of SEVERAL women who allows their sons to dictate their mom's relationships, clothing etc. And bcuz there's a void in mom, they accept their sons's decisions.

    My son is in a LT relationship with a wonderful girl, I don't get jealous, I remind him of how we want 2b treated and I expect him to treat her as such. I have informed my son that me and my bf will be getting married and I will not 'house' a grown man (like the movie, 'Baby Boy'). The same women I've spoken of earlier do not want to make these male CHILDREN. My take on that: U'LL GET OVER IT, and mama STILL LOVES U!

    Whenever I come across lazy, selfish, looking to lay up with a woman-let the woman take care of her type of males I say either ur the product of a single mother or ur mother was 1 of those who spent more time with their kids than their husband (ez'r to deal with kids' biz then the dysfunctional marriage).

    It's not wrong to love our sons, but it's unfair to our sons to not provide the necessary balance that's required in order for our male sons to thrive. Out of selflessness we shud do this 4 all our children.

    Great post!

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  3. Very thought provoking post, and v insightful comment from au naturale.

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  4. I'm feeling like a pimp, so may a brush my shoulder off? Sorry couldn't resist.

    Not only are many Black women raising sons to be 'pimps', they're overlooking plenty of guys who aren't pimps. As college educated, young Black male with no criminal record and a solid career, I can honestly say that only middle aged women and white women give me the time of day. Women 25-35? Nah, I'm not on their radar -- no matter what they say.

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  5. @saint james thanks for your comment and I am glad we can agree on this one, THANKS!...(SMILE)

    @Au Naturale thanks for your comment and you nailed it...The old saying: we love up our sons but raise our daughters is very true even today.

    @naturalsystah thanks for your comment and for stopping by.

    @LACoincidental thanks for your comment...You ought to STOP!

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  6. Annie - mean no offense. Here are more serious less cynical questions:

    How do we change the tide now? How can I reach young Black men in my community to show them that the life of a giglo is no life at all? How do we save our sons (and to that extent our daughters) from this cynical cycle of 'pimping' as a lifestyle? And how do we reach grown men and get them to turn their lives around?

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  7. I understand what your saying , but it's unfortunate you think you could prepare a young male to be a man, so many women have been fooled into thinking they have the ability and sit in the divine position to teach a young male how to be a man.

    First only a man could teach / prepare a young male to be a man as Abba Father states it takes a mother and father to raise a child

    First our people have to wake up and understand why we behave in the manner that we do.

    Once that has been accomplish then we could on to the next level
    and that is to change.

    Once that change takes place you will see that it's not a great thing to be a single mother?
    Was you married to the father? Or was you just shacking, did he just walk out,
    What ever the case may be their’s an impairment in your thinking and your programming. Some were along the line we African American people have gone to sleep
    And allowed ourselves to function in the manner that the world describe and want us to be ,which is dysfunctional people , dysfunctional men and women which create dysfunctional children and so on. joedennisusa@netscape.net

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  8. Please don't ban be from your blog for this comment. You must understand I'm witting under the influence of caring. So here goes.

    Only a man can teach a son how to be a man, likewise only a women can teach a daughter how to be a women.So this letter is for both single men and women.

    As a women you can teach your son what you think a man should/would do in a given circumstance. But only a man can show him. (actions speak louder than words)

    Ideally no child should be with both parents, but when a women has a child to raise alone with no husband in her life there should be no man in her life, until a God has given her a husband that is suitable to be the model of the man she want her son to be.

    for effect I write that again "until a God has given her a husband that is suitable to be the model of the man she want her son to be." Notice I said nothing about love?

    When she consider bringing a man into her life it should be for the purpose of marriage only. She should consider, not just his physical (not talking sexual ) attributes, but also his love for her child (son) as well.

    He should know that he is coming into a permanent relationship, that can only be consummated after marriage, and he must be willing to accept his role as the model of a man in the life of the child.

    Ladies its OK to lay down the facts before the relationship starts this will weed out the phony men. Believe me only a person with some potential to be a man will stay for a the year or two it takes to know someone when there is no sex going on.

    Audition the man to be the template of the man you want your son to be and you will have the perfect man in your life as well.

    Accept what comes your way in a man and you'll get the kind of man that the wind blew.

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  9. @saint james thanks for your comment and I am glad we can agree on this one, THANKS!...(SMILE)

    @Au Naturale thanks for your comment and you nailed it...The old saying: we love up our sons but raise our daughters is very true even today.

    @naturalsystah thanks for your comment and for stopping by.

    @LACoincidental thanks for your comment...You ought to STOP!

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  10. I understand what your saying , but it's unfortunate you think you could prepare a young male to be a man, so many women have been fooled into thinking they have the ability and sit in the divine position to teach a young male how to be a man.

    First only a man could teach / prepare a young male to be a man as Abba Father states it takes a mother and father to raise a child

    First our people have to wake up and understand why we behave in the manner that we do.

    Once that has been accomplish then we could on to the next level
    and that is to change.

    Once that change takes place you will see that it's not a great thing to be a single mother?
    Was you married to the father? Or was you just shacking, did he just walk out,
    What ever the case may be their’s an impairment in your thinking and your programming. Some were along the line we African American people have gone to sleep
    And allowed ourselves to function in the manner that the world describe and want us to be ,which is dysfunctional people , dysfunctional men and women which create dysfunctional children and so on. joedennisusa@netscape.net

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