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Showing posts with label Living a lie Marrying for the wrong reason. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Living a lie Marrying for the wrong reason. Show all posts

Thursday, January 31, 2008

Marrying For The Wrong Reason.

Blog family this is a big mess. A friend of the family is going through some stuff with her daughter. Her daughter was in the top ten of her senior class. She got a full paid scholarship to FAMU. She was involved in the church and community. She is a pretty girl smiling all the time. Her husband turns out to be a DL brother.

This young man ask her to marry him and she accepted. She gave up every thing she was working on just to get married. Both are born again Christians. I heard them say that they would married and not burn, whatever that mean. They have not been married 2 years. Now they are separating and possible getting a divorce. She came home and caught him on the internet looking at nude men.

She is hurt because he has been living a double life. He had ways that was questionable. You know how some men give them selves away with their mannerism's? I have no problem with no ones life style but when you hurt nice people with your lies that is when I have a problem. He should have told her the truth from the jump.

I think his mother knew about his life style. She is the one that wanted them to get married. I say she did it trying to make him be who he was not. He had just started preaching. My question is why do people hurt other people with their evil ways? Should he have gotten married knowing in his heart he had desires for men? Would you encourage your child to deceived someone in this way just to keep the gossip down? She did not deserved what happen to her.