Friday, March 13, 2009
When I heard that Bebe Winans was arrested on domestic violence charges.... for allegedly shoving his ex-wife to the ground during a heated argument... I am kinda waiting for the church community to speak out against this behavior, or will they?.... I don't see that taking place any time soon do you?....fact is domestic violence is a issue among the church community. Why do the church community be fronting like every thing is alright when in reality it's not? Why do some pastors say they believe in the teachings of Christ, but behind closed doors do something total different? We are taught in a biblical marriage the husband loves the wife like Christ loved the church.... we know how much that was because He gave His life for it. Therefore, you should not find a follower of Christ teaching hitting ,shoving, kicking or attacking his wife. The church community sometimes love to misquote the Bible by saying that the wife “submit” to her husband because the “Bible says so.” This incident is nothing new to The Black Church. Growing up in the deep South I have never heard a sermon on Domestic Violence. But I have seen wives of deacons with black eyes. There are some pastors in some churches who can not preach against domestic violence because they are doing it. Domestic Violence is one of the black churches worst kept secrets. some women we are aware of and some not.....Some chooses to stay and endure believing God wants them to. If there is anything good that can come out of this is maybe more churches will start looking at this problem that plagues our community. If it's in the community it's in the church.