It's Been Alleged That Pastor John Gray Cheated On His Beautiful Wife.

Online congregation like I said early this week about the Grays they really need to get out of the limelight. They don't need to be doing any kind of conference right now. I believe Pastor John Gray and his beautiful wife are becoming the poster children for toxic Christian relationships. A lot of what they said was about repression and wearing a false mask, therefore, they are letting everyone know that all they do is put on a front.

There is proof that Pastor John Gray strayed from his wife. Listen below as receipt after receipt is presented of evidence from the source itself. The below video is one of my main reason for saying that I think they need to sit down for a season.  This is a very toxic relationship and Jesus is the reason why they are trying to hold it together.  I still feel that the car he gave her was a guilt gift or better yet a gift that would allow his beautiful wife to stick her nose up at everyone that is pointing a finger at their relationship especially the alleged mistress. As we can see, none of this crap is really working out for them because week by week it looks as if their name and relationship are involved in some mess with receipts to back the crap up. Check out the video below, pay close attention to the conversation from his wife.  

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  1. This right here.. is nothing but STRANGE FIRE BURNING! How can they consider themselves as "transparent", when all they did was use cryptic and unclear language? LOL!

    It"s OBVIOUS their intent to use feigned words to
    captivate and sham the silly sheeple. They could care less the root of their real problems, that were due to occur because of their false beliefs. I'm almost sure they didn't tell us all.

    All this is par for the course for these types - preaching another one of their life's church experiences, as they so beautifully acted out in their pulpit Sunday, so they could collect their check from the dunce who sat in their pews. And of course in the end, all of them are "blessed" by this curse, and can't wait to come back and do it again.This is HILARIOUS!!! I'm literally laughing inside as I watch this mess. First the TV Preacher Show. Then their Reality Show. Next the Sister Circle and the covering. Followed by the luxury car and the pompous wedding anniversary. Now here, the cheating and near divorce. And let's not forget their money making idea, inviting the sheeple to pay $$$ to hear their expertise on how to tune up a marriage. WHAT A JOKE!!! If anyone think this is CHRISTLIKE and follows the precepts of GOD, I pray God's judgment for your foolishness and lack of salvation.

    I can't wait for the next chapter of this COMEDY DRAMA! I can almost predict what will happen in the END!!! UNBELIEVABLE!!!

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    1. I can’t call this comedy. It is cringe worthy especially when they address the other woman as the devil coming in to mess their marriage.

      Like Gray had no part to play (arranging for travels and hotel stays, asking the mistress to delete receipts of their relationship, and changing phone numbers to throw “Avenger” off the trail). And he stands behind his wife who is his certified “Rest In Brokenness” as she wads off the “devil”. All the while the devil is right behind her...

      Scary!!!

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    2. I'm sorry Shepherd. But I can't help but to laugh. I get all you are saying. But for this grown woman who call herself a pastor's wife, rumbling around in the pulpit as her oversized husband introduced her as PASTOR over the sheeple... is HILARIOUS!!! AND as you mentioned, all the part Baby Jakes played with the side chick. I'm sorry Shepherd. Even your post here, I'm about to DIE, thinking about how Aventer called the other woman the devil, you said the devil is RIGHT BEHIND HER!!! LOL!!!

      The Bible says laughter is like medicine. Thanks for giving me a dose Shepherd.
      These false teachers are funny to me.

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    3. Shepherd, you said throw "Avenger" off the trail.

      You killing me!

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    4. Larry Reid coined the name "Avenger" for Aventer.

      It's funny and it fits, considering all that is going on.

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    5. @Anonymous (all o’ y’all above)

      I do see the jokes, but to me its the kind of funny that doesn’t bring out the “hahahaha”. Instead, it brings out the “mmh, mmh, mmh!”

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    6. I got ya Shepherd. Your comments are always spot on. You are one of the few here I enjoy reading. God bless.

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    7. Thank you, anonymous.

      And God bless you too!

      I know I can’t take in any more mess. From Benny Hinn with White in Rome, past Eddie Long, Bryant... and now Taylor and the Grays...

      I’m THROUGH!

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    8. Ananias and SapphiraJanuary 4, 2019 at 10:42 PM

      Ms. Ann she said that she put scripture on that strange woman. Y’all don’t believe this mess, this is nothing but a PR move. Use discernment in this hour. That lady is still broken notice her body language in the end. Don’t be surprise if a “book deal” or “conference” with Sarah Jakes and other broken women come out of this. Yes, pray for all parties involved (even the mistress) that they will repent and get healed. Nonetheless, test the spirit. Don’t be so quick to believe everything.

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  2. Miss Ann,

    I thank God that this is unraveling at this point in time. “Men of God” stand on pulpits and preach righteousness all the while their eyes are on the collection plate and looking for whom to devour - shame!

    Someone else posted a vlog talking about the fact that they knew Gray in the 1990’s and the crowd that Gray was rolling with was as suspect as his, “I’m a virgin” mantra at the time. But those were not the days of social media and reality TV.

    The persona that Gray built is hard to keep up with in this fast paced world. Unfortunately, his wife is also entangled in the mess by the mere fact that she played along and came at her husband’s “haters” HARD (just like Tabitha Taylor, Vicki, etc).

    This is sad all around!

    To those who have purposed to live according to the precepts of God, let us look to Jesus and NO man.

    “Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so a great cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is before us,

    Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.” (Hebrews 12:1-2)

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  3. This is disturbing; these people are using the church to feed and fund their vices in life. Why give the church a bad name by living a lie. Go do motivational speaking and get out of the pulpit pretending to be someone you are not. It's clear their not pastors.

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  4. Ms. Ann. I say keep them in the limelight. They want to be transparent. Let the light shine on them all day long.

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  5. Ann I feel like their using their platform to be petty. Notice how they let the congregation know what’s going on without really saying what happened? Then the wife is screaming yelling about “you don’t want it with me?” Looks like ulterior motives. Like she’s actually talking to the other woman, like you wanted him but he’s mines. And trying to wrap it up in her “preaching.”

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    1. Right Marsha. She said "“you don’t want it with me". Why would she have to scream like that at the lil devil side chick?

      LOL!

      I can't take it anymore!

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    2. Ms. Ann described his wife as "beautiful" in her title. I see no beauty at all in her actions here.

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  6. All I see is pride haughtiness and their arrogance. Everyone knew that car was given because he had messed up big time. This is one time Avenger is not going to be able to dig him out. I’m saddened by all the mess that’s going on in Christendom. The church is being shamed. I ask the Lord to strengthen me daily because I don’t want to fall in the devils traps knowing he’s still roaming around seeking whom he may devour. The Greys need help

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    1. The "church" will never be SHAMED. The Lord said "upon this ROCK, I will build my church, and the Gates of hell will NOT prevail against it". Christ died to take away ALL SHAME. Problem is the GRAYS and so many others are like the Pharisee. They remind me so much of Jessie Jackson, Al Sharpton and Eric Dyson who use the state and condition of Black People to prosper for their own personal gain. The Grays are using their religious life tied to their belief in a prosperity gospel for personal gain. All this is backfiring on them as the LORD's Apostles say it would happen.

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  7. I am heartbroken if the allegations of an affair are true. I found John Gray to be a rare example of a man being able to keep himself for his wife and for only his wife. As far as being called a sheep, I was not comfortable with that title in my early christian days, but according to John 10:14 "I am the shepherd who cares for the sheep. I know my sheep just as the Father knows me. And my sheep know me just as I know the Father. I give my life for these sheep." (ERV)

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    1. Well guess what little sheeple, time to take the blinders off your sqwinchy little eyes. You can deny all you want to say about Big Baby Jakes these are allegations. But truth of the matter is they practically said out if their own mouths the problems they encountered in their marriage. God is revealing to you through them, and you still refuse to hear His voice. HIS sheep knows HIS voice, and you continue to plug your ears. The Grays are manipulative, cunning, greedy, ungodly schiesters. They are false teachers as the Bible calls them. false teachers. I laugh, not to ridicule, but because I know the spiritual web and games these folks play, having heard the truth, but choose deliberately to cater to their own flesh. As all this pan out, it's going to get worse for them. And if you continue to support these devils, it WILL GET WORSE FIR YOU AS WELL!!!

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    2. Calling them shysters is rather strong, yet quite apt!

      I am glad the LORD is MY Shepherd, and YES, I do NOT WANT any of THAT NO MORE!!!

      Hallelujah!

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  8. PTL and Yes his wife is Amazing! I applaud her! She kept it together while the enemy was trying to destroy the man and the ministry. She didn't allow her emotions to destroy her and the marriage. So glad she remembered her vows in the worst of times. So all you haters take that...this wise, biblical, word based women of faith and fight, won in the end and they are still together healed and restored. Amen!!!

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    1. What enemy? Her husband? She displayed no wisdom. She was overly dramatic calling the side chick a devil, like she was there in the audiance. Healing my foot. She talked about the side chick, and never mentioned anything about her and Baby Boys sins and shortcoming.

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    2. &PTL Anonymous,

      If John was strong the “devil” would have NO way of sliding up against him. However, Gray was ALL talk and NO walk. He took the time to schedule his travel and hotel stays to coincide with the “devil’s”; while missus was back home taking care of the kids. This affair was thought through by John, because the timing had to be right, his wife didn’t need to know what’s happening, get a second phone, tell the devil to discard receipts while he was talking ill of his wife to the devil.

      Someone has to be numb numb to think all the above was because the enemy hates them and the ministry. No! And missus didn’t mind playing along if it would bring in a Lambo.

      There is nothing the two have that we who have believed in Christ would hate them for. Let them not mention our Savior’s name to make $$$.

      PS - the ministry will not be destroyed. There are enough of you who are willing to jump up and down for this foolishness. Always ready to blame the enemy for someone’s personal choices and intents.

      “Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.

      But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.

      And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.” (Psalm 1:1-3)

      Unfortunately Gray does not meditate on the law of God day and night. If he did, the “enemy” would have no open door to come in. Instead he deliberately went out the country and slept with the enemy. Aventer can probably see that the enemy is actually within; but YOU have NO business standing by their choices and supporting their MESS!

      Come out and be ye separate! (2 Corinthians 6:17)

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  9. If Pastor Gray did cheat (whether in thought or in deed), he and his wife and worked past it and grown from the experience. Because of social media, things that normally would be kept private, or in a small circle are now blasted across the world in seconds and people are waiting on the sidelines ready to point a finger instead of extend grace. (The same grace the finger pointers also need.)

    Marital challenges happen to almost everyone. It takes a lifetime to learn to live with and continuing loving a person. I commend the Grays for staying with each other through "better and worse." I commend Sis. Aventer for not letting this run her away from destiny and break up her home.

    Hey Grays: Don't let the outside chatter get to you. You all explained the situation to your congregation.
    Stay strong. Enjoy your car! Lol!
    #ItsaNoDevil!

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    1. It's not that he sinned. It's about transparency. Just say you cheated period. The encrypted communication is not necessary if you are trying to truly be an example to other believers who are struggling with stuff. Leaders are scared to lose everything. But everything you have is not yours anyway. The Lambo can't go to heaven with you. We as sheep need real help and real shepherds. Stop hiding behind your sin. Help yourself and help someone else.

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    2. @If Pastor Gray did cheat...

      Pastor Gray and all the wanna be preachers, evangelicals, pastors, reverands, bishops, arch bishops, and all those with pharisee like titles:

      KEEP YOUR LIFE OFF OF SOCIAL MEDIA!

      DO NOT OVER SHARE IN THE NAME OF TRANSPARENCY AND TESTIMONY!

      God already knows those who are his. Read his WORD and live according to his precepts (Psalm 119). And the outside world will be just that: OUTSIDE!

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    3. And just because they got up before the audience and "rebuked" the she devil doesn't mean they have worked past their issues and have grown. No matter their status, esteem, transparency, love and support from their congregation, the Bible speaks clearly a man should leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife. She is to submit to him. He is to love her. Plain and Simple. All other teachings outside the LORD's commands are false and misguided. For the Preacher to say, she is his covering is FALSE. For the wife to rebuke the she devil in the name of standing by her man is false. The word of God is pure and sharp. It is revelation from God Almighty. We should speak in terms as He does, and live according to all He has said. Until the Grays know God as He has revealed Himself, they will continue to do marriage as they in their flesh only know how. As a result, problems will continue to persist.

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  10. If he was nothing nobody she would have been gone. #securingherBAG

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    1. I'm sorry, but everytime she says "R.I.B. = Rest in Brokenness", I started chuckling in sadness. Seriously, there is nothing in the Bible that even states that that is a woman's role. What is she even talking about? See, this is what happens when you get caught up in these institutions that tell you who you are supposed to be instead of knowing who you are.

      Aventer is used to identifying herself as John Gray's mother in adulthood and now her body is paying the price. That man is killing his wife with his utter narcissism and she doesn't have the self respect to walk away because she's too busy allowing him to rest in brokenness on top of her. Honestly!

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    2. She's killing herself. She likes the money, the lifestyle and the power.

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  11. I believe the Grays joint statement before the congregation was transparency. If they weren't being transparent, they would not have even addressed the subject in public. The Grays can use words of their own choosing to describe whatever it was that happened. There is such a thing using as tact. He doesn't have to use the word "cheated." When people publicly confess, most times they just say they sinned, or fell short, got out of God's will, missed the mark, disobeyed God or something of that effect. I'm sure he confessed the gory details to Aventer and God (who, of course, already knew). That makes Pastor Gray a candidate for FORGIVENESS and RESTORATION. I John 1:9

    I'm fine with the Grays and hope and pray that God will bless, keep and strengthen them!

    We're blogging about this, but I know errbody on here has forgiven Pastor Gray because we will all need God's forgiveness daily. Matthew 6:14-15

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    1. Nah. Cut the FOOLISHNESS. You are beginning to do like the Grays.

      This has nothing to do with errbody "forgiving" the Grays. This has to do more with "marking" them.

      "Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them."

      "But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints;"

      And stop the silliness, your use of the Bible here. I John 1:9 states "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

      This verse is more to MAGNIFY God for HIS faithfulness and JUSTICE. He PROMISES to forgive us and cleanse us if we confess our sins.

      STOP IT!

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    2. Mark them for WHAT? Confessing to the church? I think you have used that scripture out of context.

      They have confessed the way they wanted to confess. Yes, to I John 1:9, which is what they have done! NOW, they are forgiven and cleansed. Hallelujah ! I don't see the justice in that verse, but I do see the forgiveness and cleansing.

      So are they marked OR are they forgiven, seeing that they have confessed to God and the church?

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    3. They are to be marked, not forgiven. They are to be observed carefully (marked) coming out from under their mentor and false teacher Joel Osteen. They Grays aspires to doctrine that are contrary. And even here they committed offenses that are contrary, the act of adultery, never admitting their wrong in humility, but in pride they rebuked the she devil who came to destroy their marriage. LOL.. You suggested everybody forgive even though he did not "sin" against everybody. You ploy to silence folks from judging righteously.

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    4. Please don't attempt to put words in my mouth. I said forgive because we will also need forgiveness at some point. I'm not using any ploys. Judge all you want, whomever you want. Matt 7:1. I don't think forgiveness and judgement are mutually exclusive.

      Why do some people attract or (label) other people's opinions? People have a right to think, believe and voice their opinion just like you voice yours. Good day.

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    5. So tell me, as you admonished we should forgive the Grays, how do you propose we do it, when their offense was not against anyone here personally? Like you said, people have the right to voice their opinions just like YOU and ME, without you having to say they should forgive.

      You get the sense about forgiveness from Scriptures, saints should forgive when they have been personally trespassed against.

      "Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against THEE, rebuke HIM; and if HE repent, forgive HIM."

      "And if HE TRESPASS against THEE seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to THEE, saying, I repent; THOU shalt forgive HIM."

      Some situations call for forgiveness personally. Situations like this one call for JUDGMENT and DISCERNMENT.

      I said all this is strange fire, even your opinion here. Strange you admonished folks here to "forgive", yet said nothing about "AVENGER" never mentioning once about the she-devil who offended her. Her tone was rough and mean spirited as she spoke about this woman. Another reason I mark these people, they simply go about it the wrong way the great principle of forgiveness, the Lord says we should bless (in speech and in deeds) those who revile against us. No one said Christianity will be easy. But those who perpetrate will truly suffer!

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    6. ***"AVENGER" never mentioning "she forgave" once...

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  12. Is there or is there not an illegitimate child involved?

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  13. I know one thing, I'm so tired of this mess.

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  14. I’m not surprised. All those pastors who went on “The Preachers” have had some negative light shined on them since their appearance. First Jamal, then Dewey, now John. They are pitiful.

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  15. "And she blew up the spot like a good wife should". Really now. A wife should never be placed in this situation because husband should have checked it from the start by not entertaining it. Ann, there he goes again placing all the responsibility on his wife. Even his personal responsibility to self control. How is she still carrying that burden? How is her spirit not breaking from the weight of it? What is worse is that they are pedaling this idea as the way marriage should be. No. This is grossly unhealthy. And they need to just stop it man. Just stop it. Stop preaching lack of self control and personal responsibility. God is going to get them.

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