Can The Moral Authority To Preach Be Lost? Seven Sexual Lines No Pastor Should Ever Cross!!


Y 'all can say what YOU want to but in my HUMBLE opinion, in order for a pastor to be effected he got to be respected. A bad decision or choice can quickly destroy an entire life's brand. The climate in most churches today is one of no trust and disgust.  I believe one of the biggest problem for todays church is there's no system of accountability, most churches do not have clear guidelines for accountability.

No pastor occupying the pastor’s office entered the ministry with the intentions to do wrong.  He fell into sin and one thing led to another. (Sound familiar? It’s how life works.) 

There are 7 distinct sexual lines no pastor should ever cross in order to protect his marriage, church and himself.


1. Do not use cologne. 
2. Do not hug women. 
3. Do not be in your office with a woman alone. 
4. Do not be in the church alone with a woman. 
5. Do not make pastoral visits alone. 
6. Do not compliment a young woman on her appearance. 
7. Do not fantasize about women.

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  1. All are good points! Also make a covenant with your eyes, and turn and look in the opposite direction.

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  2. What? Do not use cologne? You got to be kidding me RIGHT? LOL...

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    1. Anonymous I kind of question that one too.

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    2. I think it has to do with women being more sensitive to the sense of smell more than men. By not trying to arouse women sexually.

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    3. That's CRAZY. COLOGNE? I never knew that. I had a woman tell me once (before I was married) she liked what she saw between my legs. Maybe this should be replaced with TIGHT fitting CLOTHES. IJS.

      I'm thinking a lot of this sexual tension starts with the WOMAN anyways. WOMEN need to be accountable as well.

      Just Read Proverbs

      1) FLATTERY--She "flatters with her words" (Proverbs 2:16). "Her mouth is smoother than oil" (Proverbs 5:3). See also Proverbs 7:21; 6:24 and compare Proverbs 22:14. She uses "sweet talk." She draws the victim to herself with nice, inviting language. She has charm to her voice and her words pull the man to herself as a magnet.

      2) BEAUTY--The evil woman is outwardly beautiful (Proverbs 6:24-25). She is attractive to the eyes. She can easily become an object of lust. This beauty is deceptive. It is only skin deep. On the inside she is the most ugly thing you could imagine.

      3) LOCATION--The evil woman knows where to locate herself so as to be most effective in getting her victims (see Proverbs 7:11-12). A skilled fisherman needs to know where to drop his line. To catch mice you need to know where to place the mousetrap. The evil woman knows where to place herself--at the time and place where the man is most vulnerable.

      4) DECORATIONS--The evil woman knows how to decorate herself and her surroundings (Proverbs 7:10,16,17)

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  3. One more thing someone named BKC need to read and apply these points to his life and ministry. Lol

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    1. And so should Dewey Smith and his spiritual sons.

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    2. Let Dewey be great! Lmao

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    3. I’m sorry, but I don’t believe that this is true. If this whole affair and 1 year son son was the talk of HOH Atlanta and Macon, that would have gotten back to his wife. He really would have had to come clean. It sounds to me that someone is set out to tear up his ministry and his family. Is there any personal vendetta against this man? Looks like somebody is throwing rocks and hiding their hand. Where is the proof that he is the father of a 1 year old son? Any pictures? Any child support court case documents? What evidence do you have to substantiate these claims?

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    4. What rock have you been under? If the young lady doesn’t come forward, why should he tell on himself? I would ride it out and make it seem that all is normal. you’re shocked like the rest of us that this man of God would do something so incriminating. Ms. Ann even said he went 30 years without a public scandal. And a few weeks later, the baby rumor resurfaced. So yup he has to uphold a certain image for the world. http://theoldblackchurch.blogspot.com/2018/05/congratulations-dr-e-dewey-smith-on-30.html

      It’s no coincidence that the Macon campus pastor and the former business partner of SSMG both left with little warning and explanation.

      Let the light in.

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    5. LOL...Ms. Ann said "30 years without a scandal" just a few weeks ago. And now this.

      Be careful Ms. Ann not to over project about these ministers so your judgment becomes clouded. All you got to do is examine their fruit against the Bible and you will cast righteous judgment all the time. Dewey and his secular music, his near condoning an abomination, his unbiblical top ten list are all indication this DUDE was capable of all the mess he's involved in. NO SURPRISE at ALL!

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    6. Top ten list?

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    7. Actually it was a "TOP 16".

      https://theoldblackchurch.blogspot.com/2018/01/pastor-edewey-smith16-tips-to-improve.html

      The list is not the point. EDEWEY is not "scandal free". No telling all the sin he's been involved in, even when they named him the most inspirational person 2007.

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    8. Lmao! I see! Well do you think he’s going to get away with THIS?! WHEN DOES IT END?

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  4. Ms. Ann,
    What happened to the articles about #metoo and mega church pastor? When I click the comments under the amen corner the articles are gone.

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    1. I took the articles down because people were constantly, after I asked not to, keep posting the young lady personal information. I don’t want to deal with that.

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    2. That was probably a tactic of someone affiliated with him to get you to pull the articles! He’s a master manipulator!

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    3. You’re right! You shouldn’t have to deal with that @ all. Your articles were bringing awareness to the issue though. Another Pastors gets away.......

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    4. A false pastor NEVER gets AWAY!

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    5. I don’t know. It seems this particular Pastor is paying everyone to be silent. So if no one comes forward, he gets away!

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  5. No cologne???!!!
    That's pushing it.
    But the rest are just common sense.
    We don't need a conference on that.

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  6. No one gets away! The all knowing God eyes are in every place, beholding the good and the evil. It’s called grace and mercy.

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