Can Gay Men Change Their Sexuality If They "Practice for 21 days?"

I found this little item on my timeline this morning, check it out and tell me what y'all think.  Most people believe that habits are formed by completing a task for 21 days in a row. Twenty-one days of task completion, then voila, a habit is formed. Even the church community have bought into this false idea. Unfortunately, this could not be further from the truth. The 21-day myth began as a misinterpretation of Dr. Maxwell Maltz’s work on self-image. Maltz did not find that 21 days of task completion forms a habit. People wanted it to be true so much so, however, that the idea began to grow in popularity.

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  1. Anonymous I don’t mine you telling the readers to check out a certain video that’s on YouTube, that I don’t mine, but I really don’t like all the links.

  2. The are many ex-gays who are strong Christians. D L Foster became a Christian having left the lifestyle. The LORD has blessed him with a godly ministry to edify the body. Charlene Cothran gave a powerful testimony on the 700 CLUB. There arr thousands of godly testimony of real transformation out there.

  3. This is utterly foolishness.
    DL Foster is now a judgmental prick with no love or compassion for others in what he himself claims to be delivered from. And yes, I have spoken with him personally. His approach is very negative and dogmatic.
    To be honest I have yet to meet anyone TRULY delivered.
    They say they are but they yet dibble and dabble.
    DL wasn't so happy when I told him some things I've noticed about him.

    1. I don't know the guy personally but he came to New Birth where I was a member and he has a tremendous testimony. He seemed to be very personable as well. I know people are not always what they seem, but maybe you could have came off the wrong way. DL talked about his ministry and how he has helped many homosexuals.

    2. Nah, I didn't come off the wrong way. I suggest you get to know him PERSONALLY outside of the pulpit and stop falling for these pulpit personas.

  4. If it were that easy, the thousands of Christians who grapple with that identity would've changed and there would be no issue. But the reality is, sexuality is tied to biology and you simply cannot change your biological make-up. Anyone who claims to have done so is either in denial or lying.

    1. DISLIKE..."sexuality is tied to biology"...THERE is no GAY GENE!!!

    2. Same sex attraction derives from experiences. Most of these gay stories are about individuals who were molested, along with other factors, mother - father rearing, low self-esteem from bullying and teased, etc.

    3. I absolutely disagree. My nephew is gay and we knew it way before he ever knew what sexual attractions were. Not only was he NOT molested, but he was raised in a two parent home with a very strong male role model who desperately did not want him to be gay. But it was visible in him as a child and there was nothing anyone could do abut it, no matter how hard we tried to guide him to be straight. It's something you're born with.

    4. I don't believe your story. Complete fabrication. Science has proven there is no gay gene. Completely environmental. Too many GODLY testimonies where ex-gays talk about their experiences both physical and psychological that affected them. GOD is GREAT and POWERFUL as HE uses His people to REVEAL the truth about this matter.

    5. I don't care what you believe science has proven, this is something that my family experienced and that I SAW with my own two eyes. If you want to believe people can change their sexual attractions, then more power to you! But those of us who live in reality know that this talk about changing your sexuality is pure foolishness and is nothing more than folks pretending to be something that they're not.

    6. No Science hasn't. There is NO GAY GENE!

    7. There is no such thing as a "gay gene."
      They have looked, and looked, and looked for years and years and years and yet NO gay gene has been found.
      God created man and woman- period.
      Anything outside of that is man-created which is not of God which makes it wrong.
      God did not create homosexuals, bisexuals, pansexuals, transsexuals no other sexuals.
      God created man and woman to become husband and wife.
      I got out of that mess when I realized who I am, who I was created to be and the lie the enemy told me.
      Homosexuality is a demonic spirit attached to men and women through sexual means and enticing fleshly ways.

  5. Two sides to every story.

  6. My issue is that they have Mama Dee as their what?
    Spiritual leader?
    What is that all about?
    She used to be a pimp.
    And in some cases she still is.


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