Question Is Oral Sex Biblically Wrong Within A Christian Marriage??



Reader there's a downside to having a large social media presence, and a lot of people are finding that out.....once it's out there it's out there. Some Christians have come for Minister Heather Lindsey over a IG post she posted last year.  Tell me what y'all think about the way Minister Heather Lindsey answered the above question? 

Some on social media are calling her out for the flipped-way in which she answered the question without giving biblical supporting scripture to back her up.  Others are saying that most pastors like her give their personal opinion on this subject and preach it as doctrine. Instead of being real and saying I'm not really sure because it's not clear in the Bible.




In my opinion, it's so important to study the Word for ourselves, and be led by our own convictions, as well as receive guidance from our personal/respective church leaders. Some people believe oral sex is considered sodomy, some think it's a waste of semen (which the Bible condemns).

 I know the Bible says the bed of marriage is undefiled, but there are still some things I just won't do, but I wouldn't consider them "sin" or even a "weight."

Reader, would you consider "Oral Sex to be wrong within a 'Christian Marriage??" Is Oral Sex Sodomy? Does Oral Sex defile the marriage bed? Why? or why not? According to Scriptures.  


Thoughts??

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  1. What happens in the bedroom between a man and his wife is nobody's business. Discussion over.

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    1. Natasshia Roxanne HallTuesday, 28 March, 2017

      Oral/anal sex is a form of sodomy even within a marriage. Sorry but the definition of sodomy does not change just because one is married or single.

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    3. Read Hebrews 13:4. There is no shame when married.

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  2. Funny how people assume something is wrong but yet cant find any scripture/evidence from Gods word to back it up. If you feel like something might be wrong & its not in Gods word than thats all it is "A feeling something MIGHT be wrong" doesn't mean that it is wrong.

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  3. She needs to have a seat!! Everything goes except for additional partners and animals. I'm quite sure they are both bored.

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  4. Ann you know this subject used to be so clear for christians 20 to 25 years ago it is scary how things have changed.

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  5. As a child I used to put things in my mouth and my mother would always say...Ti Ti..don't put tin mouth. same thing here...Ti Ti...Don't put tin mouth

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  6. Lol @ Not a fan. Thanks for that early morning laugh. I choose to stay out of this discussion, but that was funny and I mean no harm by not commenting on the subject.

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  7. Ms. Ann, you off the chain now!! LOL.... smh.. I'm speechless, all I'm gone say is, I love my wife.

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    1. Timezone how am I off the chain? This young lady asked this woman of God a question, who just happen to have a very large following or young adults. Who in my opinion should have been more equipped to answer the question biblically than she did. It's called seeking wise counsel from those in leadership. I believe she missed her opportunity to ministry to this young lady. Her use of unclean is an interesting word to use. We must interpret all things through the lens of Christ conquering the power of sin once and for all. All that what was deemed unclean in the OT (like certain animals, women on their cycles, foods, etc.) would not all be considered unclean in light of Christ's sacrificial atonement for our sins, today!

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    2. I feel like I'm texting and I'm getting misinterpreted. haha. Ms. Ann, I'm messing with you! haha. I agree with you my sista...

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    3. Alright Time Zone, you know how I can misinterpreted things, we good....by the way the reason i'm allowing Anonymous comments once again is because this blog format will not allow me to accept only users comments without accepting anonymous comments as well. I'm looking for a new commenting system.

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  8. Song of Songs. Read this book of the bible. VERY sexual. Case closed :)

    Song of Songs 2:3‭-‬4 NIV

    Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. Let him lead me to the banquet hall, and let his banner over me be love.

    Song of Songs 4:5‭, ‬7‭-‬7‭, ‬11‭, ‬15‭-‬16 NIV

    Your breasts are like two fawns, like twin fawns of a gazelle that browse among the lilies. You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you. Your lips drop sweetness as the honeycomb, my bride; milk and honey are under your tongue. The fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon. You are a garden fountain, a well of flowing water streaming down from Lebanon. Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits.


    That sounds like a whole lot of "tasting" to me... just saying.

    -Big Chris

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  9. I do know the answer to the question. If you use the dictionary definition of sodomy then yes it is wrong because sodomy is anal or oral sex between partners but I have also read that in biblical times sodomy only meant anal sex. From a health prospective you need to be careful in participating in oral sex because there is a link between oral sex and throat cancer.

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    1. So I been sodomozing my husband for the past 3 years???

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    2. What exactly are you saying... are you penetrating your husband via anal sex if that's the kind of sodomy you're referring to then I would say yes that's wrong but if you only mean giving him oral satisfaction then that would be ok perhaps.

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  10. Sodomy is defined as any act involving the mouth or anus of one person, and the genitals of another. That covers both oral and anal "sex". There is no such thing as "oral sex" or "anal sex", as they are man-made conventions. Think about what you are saying when you say sex, as in "they had sex". You are saying they had sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse is the penetration of the vagina by the penis. So if you say "they had oral sex", you are saying they had oral sexual intercourse. Which means you are saying they had oral vaginal penetration by a penis...what??? Sex was made to be beautiful, between a man and a woman, and their genitals were made to perfectly fit together by the Creator. If you think oral is OK, then anal must be OK too by that rationale. There is a reason when a woman is sexually aroused that her vagina self lubricates and not her anus or her mouth. The anus is made for excreting feces (so why would you want to be in there in the first place other than for the same reason as homosexual men- perversion), the mouth is made for ingesting food and drink, and the vagina is made for copulation/procreation.

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  11. As far as the verse about taking shade in the apple tree and enjoying the taste of his fruits. The man she chose is like an apple tree among all the other trees in the forest, it is more appealing to her than say a maple, pine, or beech. It has sweet tasting fruit and can nourish and sustain her. She enjoys being in his shade, in his presence. She enjoys the taste of his fruits. Remember many times the Bible talks about your fruits- your works, your actions- the "fruit" of your labor. She enjoys his actions, his words, the way he treats her, the way he is when he is with her, the way he loves her. I don't think we need to read it with the intent on proving to ourselves that oral is OK. The Bible also talks about the sexually immoral, and keeping the marriage bed clean. It's just my interpretation of it, but hopefully something for you to think about, study, and figure out for yourself. God, bless us and guide us in our search for answers and the truth.

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  12. Haha, all these people quoting an old book whose god instructed and ordered forced marriage, sex slaves, and just ordinary slaves....you won the war over that. Dump this stupid book.

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