Don't Take Advice From Everybody Concerning YOUR Marriage !!!


Reader, if marriage matter to the Christian, then why are there so many divorces among Christians? Some people say experience is the best teacher. I say experience is A teacher, but the Bible is THE best teacher.



The Bible does not address how to find the "perfect spouse," nor does it get as specific as we might like on the matter of finding the right marriage partner. The one thing God's Word does explicitly tell us is to make sure that we do not marry an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14-15). First Corinthians 7:39 reminds us that, while we are free to marry, we should only marry those who are acceptable to God"in other words, Christians. 

Question: Would you be willing to accept marriage advice or counseling from a divorce Pastor, Teacher, Preacher, Bishop?

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  1. Miss Ann,

    "But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And they twain shall be one flesh; so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder... Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery." (Mark 10:6-12).

    Unfortunately this is not emphatically taught in church. You have bishops, pastors, deacons married but with intimate affairs on the side. Before you know it, wives and husbands are divorced and their side situations become the new wives/husbands. The sheep are learning from the shepherds, but God will judge each according to his WORD (Ezekiel 34).

    The LORD is my Shepherd, I shall NOT want...

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  2. NO NOT FROM JOHN GUNS THE MAN WHO LEFT HIS WIFE. THE WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HIS GODDAUGHTER WHOM HE IS MARRIED TO NOW. HOW IS HE OR HER GPING TO TELL ANYBODY OR AMYONE ANYTHING ABOUT TRUE LOVE. WHEN THEY BOTH ARE WHOREMONGERS. FOLKS WILL FOLLOW ANYTHING AND ANYBODY TO HELL.THESE SO CALLED PREACHER'S DO ANYTHING TO GET MONEY. THE REASONS THAT OUR CHURCHES ARE IN THE MESS THAT THEY ARE IN IS BECAUSE THE LEADERS OF THE CHURCH ATE A MESS. SO WHAT DO YOU EXPECT FROM THE FLOCKS. FOLKS ARE LEAD BY EXAMPLE. THE BLIND LEADING THE BLIND. HOW HIS WIFE GOING TO TEACH ANY WOMAN TO BE A VIRTUOUS WOMAN WHEN SHE IS A WHORE, HOME WRECKER, GODDAUGHTER THAT WAS BABY SITTING HIM AND HIS WIFE KIDS, STAYING AT THERE HOUSE, OH NO. BUT SHE COULD TELL THEM ABOUT A KELLY PRICE SONG ABOUT BETRAYAL. HOW HE GONNA TEACH THE ANY MAN TO BE FAITHFUL TO BE A GOOD HUSBAND TO WOMAN WHEN HE IS A WHORE, SLEEPING NOT ONLY WITH YOUR GODDAUGHTER, BUT WITH OTHER WOMEN IN THE CHURCH, GOING OUT OF TOWN DOING WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO, BEING DISRESPECTFUL TO YOUR FAMILY, DISRESPECTFUL TO THE CHURCH, PAYING OTHER WOMEN'S BILLS, ALL WHILE ONLY EMPLOYMENT IS THE CHURCH.YET YOU SAY YOU ARE SAVED, YOU ARE THE BISHOP, DON'T NOBODY TELL YOU WHAT TO DO, UPU GOING TO PLAY GOLF, YOU AND THE NEW WIFE LIVE IN QUEEN HARBOR GOLF AND COUNTRY CLUB , WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED. AND THAT'S Y'ALL BUSINESS AND NOBODY'S ELSE. YET IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT YOU STAND IN THE PULPIT EVERY SUNDAY OR THAT OTHER AFFIRMATIONS HAVE YOU COME PREACH FOR THEM. AND WE WONDER WHY THE FOLKS ARE LAUNCHING AT THE CHURCH. AND FOLKS WON'T GET SAVED. IT'S BECAUSE OF SINFUL FOOLISHNESS LIKE THIS. AND THIS DON'T INCLUDES THE MONEY, VEHICLE'S,GOLF COURSES,GOLF CLUBS, HOMES, CLOTHING. AND NO AIN'T NOBODY JEALOUS OF NOBODY. WHO IS JEALOUS OF ANYBODY OR ANYTHING THAT WOULD HINDER SOMEONE SOUL TO BE SAVED.AND MISS GOING TO HEAVEN TO SEE JESUS. KEEPING IT HONEST



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  3. Here's my take on this issue here.

    I personally believe one of the major reasons for the high divorce rate in the church is because we fail Proverbs 4:5 "Get wisdom, get understanding: forget it not; neither decline from the words of my mouth."

    When it comes to marriage counselling, we are so brain-washed to believe only the Pastor can perform such services. This lie only leads to paths of sin and ruins. It's no accident the Word of The LORD so plainly teaches in BOOKS written to the churches-

    "For as we have many members in one body, and all members have not the same office: So we, being many, are one body in Christ, and every one members one of another." Romans 12-4:5  

    "For the body is not one member, but many. If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? And if the ear shall say, Because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? If the whole body were an eye, where were the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling? But now hath God set the members every one of them in the body, as it hath pleased him. I Corinthians 12:14-18.

    And given we are all members of the body, the LORD has given each of us spiritual gifts.

    "Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, whether prophecy, let us PROPHESY according to the proportion of faith; Or MINISTRY, let us wait on our ministering: or he that TEACHETH, on teaching; Or he that EXORTETH, on exhortation: he that GIVETH, let him do it with simplicity; he that RULETH, with diligence; he that SHEW MERCIES, with cheerfulness." Romans 12:6-8 

    "For to one is given by the Spirit the word of WISDOM; to another the WORD OF KNOWLEDGE by the same Spirit; To another FAITH by the same Spirit; to another the gifts of HEALINGS by the same Spirit; To another the working of MIRACLES; to another PROPHESY; to another DISCERNING OF SPIRITS; to another DIVERS KINDS OF TONGUES; to another the INTERPRETATION OF TONUES:" I Corinthians 12:8-10

    "Wherefore he saith, When he ascended up on high, he led captivity captive, and gave gifts unto men. And he gave some, APOSTLES; and some, PROPHETS (also listed in Romans and I Cor., so not one of the five fold ministries as the "ELITE" claims); and some, EVANGELSITS; and some, PASTORS and TEACHERS (also listed in Romans and I Cor., so not one of the five fold ministries as the "ELITE" claims);" Ephesians 4:8,11

    As church folks we have not expounded enough to know the functionality and operation of each of these gifts. It's said about those possessing the gift of exhortation, they make the best counselors. How far away are we from this as TRUE! Exhorters encourage believers to mature in Christ, and regard trials as an opportunity for growth. Wise counsel flows from the heart if an exhorter who is able to skillfully identify precepts and principles from the word of God.

    On the other hand pastors are shepherds, called to care for the sheep, to guide them to protect them (from the wolves) to lead them (by example). In most cases the pastor is not the best counselor.

    The Church has failed in an obvious area for the spiritual growth and maturity of its members. All they care about are the externals, a building fund, some food for the poor, who's going to win the next election, black people and police brutality, the concerns of the millennials, the choir and good singing, the scholarship fund, the all white attire and come as you are, when the LORD have given us power and gifts to edify and build and reach and teach and feed and nurture and provide for and witness and minister to a LOST WORLD to draw them to the VERY GOD who MADE THEM.

    It's no way this DUDE should advise ANYONE!!!

    GET OUTTA HERE!!!





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  4. I always laugh (and not in a funny way) when I see pastors who clearly can't handle marriage (or the opposite sex) trying to do marriage courses or counseling.

    People such as
    Jamal Bryant
    Juanita Bynum
    Paula White
    LeAndrea Johnson
    And most of the cast of "Preachers of L.A.
    Should NEVER try to EDUCATE married couples.

    Find your self a "LICENSED COUNSELOR" before you start running to the un-qualified arms of a pastor with his own issues.




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  5. When did Bishop Guns divorce his wife. Last I knew he was married to his wife Melissa from Norfolk, Va

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  6. I think the issue is that even though we have the word as a measuring stick to go by at the same time there aren't many examples out there for a person or couple to look at to see how to live it out. However the bigger issue is that most people go about trying to replicate someone else's marriage. Thus we either form expectations in our minds before or during marriage about what our spouse should be like. We are all different and people should be able to see that. There isn't a one size fits all for every equation you come across in marriage. I think it really boils down to Ephesians 5. In essence both the man and wife submit to one another. In marriage your taking 2 imperfect people and it takes time and patience on their parts to learn one another, compromise and move forward together with Christ lighting the way. Just my opinion. I apologize for being lengthy.

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  7. Excellent post. Well said.

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  8. You can't possibly give me advice that obviously didn't work for you. How can you tell me how to keep my wife when you couldn't even keep your own. Or maybe she wised up and saw the light.

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  9. When I first moved to Jacksonville years ago I visited his church a couple of times when he was going through his divorce and didn't like the environment.

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  10. satan has many agents masquerading as ministers, pastors, bishops etc. I purposefully used lower case letters because they are operating under the authorization of the god of this world.

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  11. Bishop Guns was married to his first wife this second young wife is his Goddaughter that him and his wife had. That's the bottom line. This woman was not his first wife. He was having an affair with her while yet marriex to the first. She was the one of a few he was seeing out of town. There's no mistake. We know the facts.

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  12. He's an arrogant lil cuss

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