Is It True That Christian Men No Longer Want A Good Old Church Girl?


Reader, very interesting read.  According to this article, a lot of single Christian women have voiced their frustrations with a lot of male leaders in the church and Christian men who have started a relationship with girls, who aren't as involved in the church. For example, Gospel artist Israel Houghton found love with fiance singer/talk show host Adrienne Bailon. And Pastor Devon Franklin wed actress Megan Good. Though it's all love for their unions, we keep hearing the discontent from single Christian women, who are asking why are they being overlooked. Here the writer outlines six reasons she's encountered when discussing the issue with Christian singles.

  6 Possible Reasons Why Christian Men No Longer Want a Church Girl

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  1. These clowns are compromisers. They want one foot in church and the other foot in the world. They love the glitz and glamour of the hellyweird lifestyle and act as if God is pleased with this foolishness.

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    1. Batting leadoff, number... Timezone! You have properly identified (discerned) the above mentioned situation, and thereby ended any discussion.
      Once again, THANK YOU.

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    2. Asia Simone:

      "These church girls must be beside themselves, though. Men in church are telling y'all to stay virginal and modest and to wait patiently for a husband. Meanwhile, these church dudes are scooping up and marrying 'hoes' like Megan Good and Adrienne Bailon. Stop listening to these men in church about what a man of God wants. Because they lying."

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  2. They are not SAVED. They have a formed of Godliness. A real SAVED man would want a real SAVED woman. Hellywood is more important to them then Heaven. They are in there heaven now. Russell Wilson , Israel, Devon etc. They are a joke. The women they choose look like hookers, dress like hookers, act like hookers. They don't represent Holiness. But they are not being taught real Holiness in the ministry that they attend or under. The apple don't fall far from the tree. Monkey see monkey do. Playing Gamez in the name of GOD. Shame on them. In HELL they shall lift up there eyes.

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    1. Natasshia Roxanne HallSaturday, 12 November, 2016

      They ONLY grooming women in church to pay tithes and fund everything; when it's time to find a wife they looking for reality stars and hoes.

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  3. I believe so many are "caught up" with fame and fortune and want to be in the spotlight. I don't want to judge but some of these men are known as serial cheaters. It's very disturbing to see what's going on in the church today. I even heard Noel Jones reject marriage but has a woman he's been with for yrs. what does that mean? He even said he doesn't think the idea of marriage and one person is for him. Does that mean he disagrees with the bind regarding per-marital sex? I have no words for Israel. I'm really sadden of all the pics w this lady vacationing. Sex inside marriage seems to be something some don't value. Where is the leading and prompting of the Holy Spirit?

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    1. At the risk of being seen a contrarian, I will save my commentary. Lol. But I do find it interesting, that in this day in age, we are still using "church girl" as a synonymous word for a believer with a relationship with Jesus Christ. Those AREN'T the same to me (all though there can be obvious overlap) and personally I can see why the former isn't desirable....to some.

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  4. Keep in mind that all 'Christian' people are not always biblically 'Saved' people. Even 'Saved' people are many times lead of the flesh and other people's opinion and not of the Spirit. The term 'Christian' has become very generic in its meaning as compared to scripture.

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    1. True Drive By,

      True Christian living is about denying self (Luke 9:23) and dying daily (1 Corinthians 15:31). And that is a hard life today's "pretend Christians" cannot fathom or dare to follow. They want the pleasure, fame and fortune.

      The LORD is my Shepherd, I shall NOT want...

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  5. This definitely was interesting..it's funny how women are told "drop standards" but men can have a ten commandments of standards that even Jesus momma can't meet but that's okay.

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  6. I would say just because she is active in church does not mean she is immediately 'wife material'. Does she actually believe her activity is of benefit to the body of christ? What is her attitude and demeanor to people around her. Some ladies may sit back because they seriously believe that their help and skill set isn't needed or maybe because they haven't been approached to help. Lastly, perception is also a key thing here. The stereotype that church girls can be uptight and better-than-you-ish, must be looked at critically. Is it because they won't sleep around like the town sisters? Is it because they will actually ask you what your vision is or conversely is it because they feel more enlightened hence will not talk to common 'sinners'?

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    1. Joshua Smith, I agree it's true...being active in church does not mean you are a wife material as such......the important s that as we actively serve we need to surrender and let God develop in us Godly character that as we prepare for marriage all that s required is nurtured through the direction of the Holy spirit unless one s actively serving to attract attention...

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  7. Miss Ann,

    Christian women need men whose head is Christ (Ephesians 5:23). These men (who pretend to be Christians) can NOT and do NOT want to be held at that standard. They want to instead be recognized by the world through the women they have on their arm. And the question is, are these men REALLY Christians? (1 John 2:19) By their fruits we see they were never believers in the LORD Jesus Christ (Matthew 7:16-20). And so they do not want to be held accountable by women who are believers in Christ according to the precepts of God.

    Young Christian women out there please do NOT look for these kinds of men. Look to men who are truly called of God and who are ready to submit to Christ and his commandments. Take heed to keep the commandments of God at ALL cost. It is best to have a husband who walks according the WORD of God, he is worth pleasing.

    “There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.” 1 Corinthians 7:34.

    The LORD is my Shepherd, I shall NOT want...

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  8. I watched a doc about Meagan Good. She comes from the church and her acting has always met some conflict for some of the roles or characters she plays. I think God has placed her in a good union so not sure why her name always comes up

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    1. SoFrolushes,

      Miss Good comes from church, but that does not mean that she is living according to the precepts of God. Her life reflects one who has not been taught how to live virtuously (Proverbs 31) and not have the name of God be blasphemed (Titus 2:3-5).

      Her fruit is something else. Can you even try to imagine how many men have lusted after her in her provocative film roles and red carpet ensembles?

      Proverbs 14:12 " There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death."

      The LORD is my Shepherd, I shall NOT want...

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  9. Okay here is one theory. Could I'd be that they grown tired of sleeping with the women in church ?

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    1. Haha Too Honesty that's a good one.

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    2. So sad, but that's a seriously good point.

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    1. Too honest,

      It could be.

      I read an interview done by a radio presenter and he said how he had dated a "church girl". His conclusion was that "church girl" was one of the most freaky girls he'd dated.

      Definitely food for thought.

      The LORD is my Shepherd, I shall NOT want...

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