Is It Entertainment Or Is It Ministry?

Me being a Christians for many years.....I have often sought to prematurely dominate others  by legally imposing  my views of Christianity on everyone else....I realize today  my action could resulted in the most shameful legacy I could ever leave behind......that is to alienated  people from Jesus Christ.....I've always had a problem with dancing in the church.....to me it was a form of entertainment...but Matthew 13: 24-30 have causes  me to view this from another view point.