When Christians Shack Up It Hurts Their Testimony!

I was reading this article about actress Tamera Mowry engagement...And in the article it stated that the newly engaged couple plans to move in together soon and start the planning for their big day....I know for secular folks moving in with each other  isn't a big deal....But for Christians it should be a bigger deal....And yes Ms.Tamera has claim that banner of being a Christian....This is the first comment under that article: I thought she was a strong Christian, yet she is moving in with him before getting married.  

Living together today  has become very common in mainstream America...This generation  look at it as the next step in a  boyfriend/girlfriend relationship....But  back in my day, unmarried couples that lived together were looked at as if  they had committed the unpardonable sin...People were embarrassed to even tell someone they were shacking up.

I was raised  in a small town in the deep south....And in my  local community those old ancestors  openly frown on "Shacking  Up." I believe that upbringing  has help  formed my opinion on the matter....I still to this day believe that it's wrong...But sometimes I wonder if I'm the one missing something....I believe this lifestyle  is becoming way to prevalent and acceptable among this generation....Especially Christians!

Question: Why do people  waved the banner  “do not judge” when sin is  pointed out and call sin according to scripture?