We raised their children to be what society call acceptable. We cook meals made appointments made sure every body were taken care of. Now we look back at our life and don't see the men that we help along. Were y'all at? Why must we travel on with out you. What made me so not like by you? Why are so many mature black women by them selves at this stage of life? Have we given up to much during our younger years? How can we tell our young women of today that the pay off might not be what they expect?
“Essence when used to define a person is viewed as the real or ultimate nature of an individual, and all the elements that make up the essential nature of their being.”